The Structure that Saved Her Life

Michelle came to House of Refuge Sunnyslope (HRS) after years of domestic violence, addiction, and loss. A destructive relationship led to drug use, homelessness, and the painful removal of her children by CPS.

“I was in a domestic violence situation, using drugs, and I lost my kids to CPS,” she shared. “Everything just kept falling apart.”

Michelle came to House of Refuge Sunnyslope (HRS) after years of domestic violence, addiction, and loss. A destructive relationship led to drug use, homelessness, and the painful removal of her children by CPS. “I was in a domestic violence situation, using drugs, and I lost my kids to CPS,” she shared. “Everything just kept falling apart.”

Determined to survive and start over, Michelle left Mesa and came to House of Refuge Sunnyslope despite fear and uncertainty. “When I came to HRS, it was scary,” she said, “but I knew I needed structure.”

At House of Refuge Sunnyslope, Michelle committed to the program’s expectations, remaining drug-free, attending Bible studies, and actively pursuing employment. “They don’t just let you stay here,” she explained. “You have to be clean, go to Bible study, and get a job. That accountability mattered.”

Finding work was difficult at first, but staff and community partners came alongside her. “I was applying everywhere and getting discouraged, but staff didn’t give up on me,” Michelle said. With support from St. Mary’s, she secured overnight work that led to stable employment.

Through Bible studies and Celebrate Recovery, Michelle experienced deep healing and growth. “I learned to work the program and not let the program work me,” she reflected. Today, she celebrates more than a year of sobriety, steady employment, and an upcoming move into her own apartment in Peoria.

“I’ve been sober for over a year now, and I’m proud of myself,” she said. “For the first time, I can honestly say I’m standing on my own.”

As Michelle prepares to graduate, she offers simple advice to new residents: “You have to show up. Go to class. Be part of the community. That’s where the healing happens.” Reflecting on her journey, she adds, “The structure here saved my life.”